Now Offering Divorce Coaching
After 30 years of practice as a family law attorney and mediator, Pascha is excited to offer Divorce Coaching.
Divorce coaching is not therapy and it is not typical attorney/client representation or consultation, either. Rather, Pascha brings her decades of experience in family law and divorce, along with a host of coaching tools, ideas, and resources, to provide guidance and support to you at every stage of the process.
Pascha received extensive training through the CDC Institute to work as a Certified Divorce Coach. This rigorous certification program is accredited by the American Bar Association and allows Pascha to offer her coaching services to clients in all 50 states and abroad. Pascha can meet with you from the privacy of your own home or office, via Zoom or telephone.

Pascha's hourly rate for coaching services is less expensive than her rate for attorney and mediation services. Coaching packages and "bundles" are also available to offer comprehensive services and support, at a more affordable overall cost.
Coaching can actually save you money on your overall divorce costs, as you can get support, education, and guidance with Pascha at a lower hourly rate. Rather than calling your attorney or mediator every time you have a question or something upsetting occurs, Pascha can typically answer your questions, calm your fears and get you the information you need saving you time, money and anguish. Pascha brings her 30 years of experience as a divorce attorney and mediator to help you identify your goals, create action plans, and prepare you for your meeting with your attorney, mediator or a court hearing. Pascha also has a host of referrals; so when your needs fall outside the scope of her coaching services, Pascha will refer you to the right person to address the matter.
Pascha can help you at any stage of the process....
Not Sure if Divorce is the Right Answer: If you are contemplating a separation or divorce, Pascha can help you make the decision that is right for you and your family. Often, the "should I stay or should I go?" phase is the hardest. Pascha can help you find clarity, work through the uncertainty and help you move forward with confidence—whatever path you choose. Pascha will help you find the resources and tools you may need to save your marriage. Pascha will also support you if you determine the marriage is over, removing the stigma of divorce, and empowering you to move forward with clarity and knowledge about what to expect ahead.
Already Started the Separation & Divorce Process: If you are already going through the divorce process, Pascha can help you navigate this often overwhelming process, providing education, perspective, and steady support every step of the way. Pascha will act as your thinking partner, experienced professional, and guide at every stage of the process.
Moving from Surviving to Thriving, Post-Divorce: If you have finalized your divorce and are navigating the next chapter, Pascha can help you rebuild with purpose, confidence, and hope—creating a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and truly your own. Together, you'll focus not just on healing from what was lost, but on embracing what is possible and making this your best chapter yet.
DISCLAIMER: Coaching is not a substitute for legal advice or representation. Although she is a licensed California attorney, when Pascha is acting as your Certified Divorce Coach, she is not your lawyer and cannot provide legal advice.
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What is Divorce Coaching?
Drawing on more than 30 years of family law experience, Pascha developed her coaching practice to provide compassionate, experienced guidance at a more accessible price point than traditional legal services. She brings compassion, practical wisdom, and a deep commitment to healing, helping clients move forward with clarity, confidence, and hope.
Here are just a few examples of how Pascha can help:
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Pascha will listen to and validate your experience;
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Pascha will help you create an action plan consistent with your goals, values, and intentions;
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Pascha will prepare you for mediation so you feel organized, informed, and confident.
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Pascha can demystify the legal documents and court process by explaining everything in clear, easy-to-understand language.
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Pascha will answer your questions (there are no "dumb" questions), provide legal education, and help you prepare for meetings with your attorney so you can make the most of your time—and your legal fees.
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Pascha will offer practical guidance, trusted referrals, and holistic support for your mind, body, and spirit before, during, and after your divorce.
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Pascha suggests a series of regular individual coaching sessions tailored to your individual needs.
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Pascha also offers small group coaching, workshops, and retreats with others who are going through the process, providing you with support in the collective and reminding you that you are not alone on this journey, during or after divorce.
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Pascha's offerings can also include sessions with a financial professional, mortgage expert, realtor, CDFA, CPA, and/or custody and parenting specialist.
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It is Pascha's sincere goal to provide comprehensive divorce coaching and to insure that you are taking care of mental, physical, legal, financial and emotional needs at every stage of the process.
How is Pascha's Divorce Coaching Different Than A Legal Consultation with Pascha?
Pascha's Role as an Attorney: Pascha is a licensed California attorney and is available to provide legal consultation and advice if that is what you need. However, it is important to note that legal consultation is not the same as divorce coaching. If you are seeking legal advice and consultation, please clearly communicate this to Pascha's assistants when reaching out to book appointments. Legal consults are booked directly through Pascha's office and NOT online. (only coaching can be booked online).
As your consulting attorney, Pascha can and will provide you with legal advice, review financial forms, tax returns, paystubs, and perform financial calculations (if applicable). Pascha can also provide legal advice on issues such as separate and community property, child custody, child support, spousal support/alimony, and more. Please be aware that when you schedule a legal consultation with Pascha, her services are billed at her standard (higher) hourly rate, currently $550/hour and subject to increase.
Pascha's Role as a Divorce Coach: As your coach, Pascha leverages her 30 years of legal experience to guide you through the divorce process, helping you navigate your options, decide whether to “stay or go,” and demystify the complexities of divorce.
Pascha will provide you with legal education, resources, referrals, emotional support, and practical guidance at every stage of the process—before, during, and after a potential divorce.
However, as your divorce coach, Pascha is not acting as your attorney and cannot provide legal advice or representation.
Instead, Pascha will draw on her extensive background in divorce and family law including financial matters, real estate, child custody issues and mental health matters. As your coach, Pascha is your thinking partner, helping you develop a personalized action plan for your divorce. She'll help you consider critical aspects of a divorce such as support, cash flow, housing, co-parenting, dealing with a difficult ex-spouse, and staying well-informed and empowered throughout this challenging life transition. As your divorce coach, Pascha will offer you thoughtful strategies to ensure that you make informed decisions that align with your goals and values.
Pascha's divorce coaching will provide you with guidance and support to help you clarify your goals and ensure that you approach your divorce as your best and most prepared self. Pascha offers a free 10 minute discovery call to determine if divorce coaching is right for you!
Pascha's hourly rate as a divorce coach is less than her rate as an attorney, mediator or legal consultant. Pascha's current hourly rate for divorce coaching is $300/hour. Pascha also offers group coaching and support for a more affordable rate (typically about $50/session).
Click “BOOK ONLINE” to schedule divorce and custody coaching
Click "CONTACT US" for Mediation and Legal Consultation
